Four Reasons for Non-Performance

 ‎ Concentration attention is the name of deciding what you won't touch. "John's Rimk"‎

‎In 1973, students of a religious seminary unconsciously participated in a comprehensive survey entitled How suicide-seekers and comforters feel. These students were called for this review and divided into two groups to find out what were the elements that forced them to provide support to strangers. Some were told that they would develop a conversation about religious jobs, while others were told that they would talk about a narrative about good and compassionate human beings, just as the Gospels talk about helping people. Some in each party were told that they were late and should show urgency to reach their destination. At that time, the students were unaware that their researchers had put a man with them, who was lying on the ground at that time coughing and was in very bad condition.‎

‎In the end, half of the students stopped helping but the decisive time was not work, but time. 90 per cent of the students, who were quick to reach their destination, were unable to provide help to the stranger. Some students were unable to really help him in the struggle that he had to reach his destination. It didn't matter at this point that half of them had left to talk about helping others.‎

‎Now, if students in a religious seminary can so easily lose their concentrated attention to their preference, then we should simply pray for others.‎

‎Clearly, our best wishes and ambitions can backfire. Just as six lies will deceive you and mislead you, there are six reasons why you may lose your practicality. And since there is no one to help you at the moment, it's up to you not to let these reasons arise.‎

‎Four reasons for non-performance‎

‎1. 'No, inability to say no. ‎

‎2. Fear of disorder and chaos.‎

‎3. Untruthful habits۔‎

‎4. The environment does not support your goals.‎

‎1۔ No, inability to say no.‎

‎Once a friend of mine told me that a 'yes' should be defended over time against a hundred. Early in my professional life, I didn't understand it at all, but today I think it's an understatement.‎

‎However, it is a different thing that a person goes astray while concentrating and it is a very different thing that you get kidnapped before you reach the destination. What you say yes to, and say, the way you protect it, is very useful in denying what might lead you astray.‎

‎Your partner and friends will ask you for advice and help. People who work with you will want you to join their team. Friends will want your help. Strangers will be looking for you. Presentations and interventions will appear before you on the unexpected. The way you deal with all of this, your attitude will determine the time you want to devote to your single thing and eventually you will be able to produce results.‎

‎Consider this point. When you say yes to something, it becomes important for you to understand that you are saying no. Screenwriter Stud ny Howard once said that half of what you want to go is like what you will have to lose before you go. And now in the end the best way to achieve great success is to keep your priorities short. And when your priorities are short, you'll refuse many of the things you've brought into consideration before.‎

‎Steve Jobs was someone who knew better than anyone else how to make priorities short.‎

‎can go. It is said that he was proud of his products for which he never sacrificed, while he created Apple's life-changing products. Two years after its return in 1997, it reduced its company's products from 350 to 10. These 340 products that he refused to produce were not among the products required during this period. "When you think about concentrated attention, you think," he said at the MacWorld Developer Conference in 1997. Concentration attention means not to say yes, concentration attention also means that you have to say no. Steve Jobs was in search of extraordinary results and knew that extraordinary results were the only way. Jobs denied many things.‎

‎The skill of saying yes is the skill of saying no in a spontaneous way. To say yes to everything means not to say yes to anything. Every new and added responsibility robs you of energy and effectiveness. So when you do more and more things, it is most likely that you will not succeed in most of them. You can't make everyone happy, so don't even try it. In fact, when you try like this, no one can make you completely happy.‎

‎Or, say no to your only thing, your top priority. By denying anything as long as you take this aspect into account, you can better divide your time in a way that's acceptable to you.‎

‎Now it's a matter of how all this happens. ‎

‎All of us struggle to say no to some extent. There are many reasons for this. We want to help. We don't want to suffer. We want us to empathise with the people and come in handy for the people. We don't want to be treated as insensitive and ruthless. All of this is completely understandable. The process of being in need and needy is very satisfying and the process of helping others is also very satisfying. Through the process of focusing on our goals vis-à-vis others, those whom we consider useful to ourselves can perceive us as selfish and selfish.‎

‎"You can't say it right away and you can convince a person to say yes by saying no," says Seth Godan, a product sales expert. But simply saying yes that you can't afford the momentary pain of saying no won't be useful in your work. Godin did the same. You can maintain, not your own, and yes, in a way that is beneficial to you and others.‎

‎Of course, whatever you need to say no, you can say it without pause and act on it. There is nothing wrong with this behavior. In fact, it should be your first priority every time. But if you feel that there will be times when you don't have to be complacent, there are many ways people can make progress toward their goals.‎

‎You can ask them a question that will give them the help they are always looking for. You may tell another method that no one needs. You may not know what they could have done, so you can help them to tell them with the utmost kindness and kindness that they should create creativity in themselves. You can transfer their request to others in the most gracious way who may be better at helping them.‎

‎Now, if you're finally forced to say yes, then you have a lot of creative ways to make sure it works. In other words, you can support your yes. Aid centers, centers of welfare and information centers, cannot exist without this kind of strategy. Already printed drafts, over-asked questions, papers or files, various remedies, booklets, daily leaflets, and default training groups, can be used to effectively say yes while you can also save your time properly. I started all this when I started my first job as a sales manager. I would ask as many questions as possible in training sessions, and then or by printing or writing them, create a collection of answers that my team could use best when I wasn't personally present.‎

‎The most important and great lesson I learned during this time is that through this you get a philosophy and ideology that allows me to manage this quality of my position. Over time, I came up with a three-foot rule. When I took one arm from my neck to my fingers, the distance would be three feet. Since then, I have made it my mission to better divide my time on what I can do within three feet. It's a very simple rule. A request must be attached to my only thing so that I can consider it. If not, I can deny it or use some other way to move it somewhere else.‎

‎The acquisition of knowledge that cannot be said is not the way to live alone and isolated. This is a way to achieve greater freedom and flexibility. Your capabilities and resources are limited. Your time is also available to you to a certain extent. If you don't customize your life according to your preference, then your life will become like things you don't want to do.‎

‎In one of his articles in 1977, the highly successful comedian Bel Kose explained the reason for this practical performance in a very detailed way. When he was starting the journey of his professional life, he read an admonition that he tied to his knot, "I do not know the secret of success, but the secret of failure is that man should try to please everyone. This is a life-changing admonition. If you can't express too much, then you can't say yes to your only thing, practically it's up to you to decide. ‎

‎When you elevate your only thing with your heavy yes and say no too loudly, extraordinary results are possible.‎

‎2. Fear of disorder and chaos‎

‎A bit of humor happens on the way to achieving extraordinary results. Disorder, restlessness, disorder, disorder. When we work tirelessly according to our time, there is a lot of work around us.‎

‎When you focus your attention on just one thing, then this kind of situation is inevitable. But when you divert your attention from your most important work, the world doesn't wait for you either. It keeps moving at its own pace quickly and things progress very quickly when you just keep chasing a priority. Unfortunately, there is no way to stop giving a break in life. You can't run life slowly and when you want that kind of desire‎

‎I suffer, failure and despair become your destiny.‎

‎You lose practical performance when you allow chaos, chaos to enter your life, or your thinking becomes devoid of creativity.‎

‎The process of focusing on a single thing has definite results; that other tasks are not completed. However, the real point is this, it does not by itself tell us to feel better. Of course, there are always people and projects that are certainly not part of your sole priority but are still very important to you and you will feel that they require your full attention. It is also that there is always an unfinished task on your head which keeps distracting you. And then your time, which you have set aside for your most important work, is submerged, in which you focus your attention on your only thing, and the more pressure you have to come out of the water and take fresh air, during this time you put everything in place. Eventually, even a particle of water discharge, causes you to choke.‎

‎When this situation happens, you have allowed all kinds of disorder and chaos to happen and you feel full satisfaction, but when it comes to practicality, it is not based on satisfaction.‎

‎At this time, your practical performance becomes zero.‎

‎In fact, it's a matter that always depends on you. When you strive for great success, the birth of chaos and disorder is also inevitable. In fact, it is possible that the rate of chaos and disorder in other areas of your life is consistent with the amount of time you spend for your only thing. At this stage, it is important for you to realize that instead of fighting it, accept it. Oscar-winning filmmaker Frans Ford Khola warns us that anything you build extensively or with great enthusiasm necessarily invites chaos and chaos. In other words, get used to the situation and overcome it.‎

‎If a random table is a sign of a random mind, then what does an empty table symbolize?"‎

‎Now, in every person's personal and professional life, there are some things that cannot be ignored, family, friends, pets, personal commitments, or most importantly work. All or some of these things at any given time keep your time distribution hanging. You can't abandon your power center, it exists all the time. So what are you going to do now?‎

‎I asked this question many times. I will be teaching and I know that as soon as I finish my teaching, hands will stand up. What do I do when I am the only father of my children? What will happen to my elderly parents when they are totally dependent on me?" "All the responsibility of my family is on me, so what should I do? Of course, these are all legitimate and pertinent questions. However, Let me tell you about them.‎

‎Depending on your situation, your timing may initially look different from others. Each of you has a unique situation. Depending on what stage of life you are at at the moment, you may not be able to specialize for yourself every morning. You may also have children and parents. You may be working as a supervisor in your time, taking care of your home, or you may have some work elsewhere, maybe your alone time is different from any other time of the day for a moment. You may have to sacrifice your time for others so that they can protect your time and in return you protect their time. It is possible that your child and your elderly parents will help you during your specific time because they have to be with you or you really need their help.‎

‎Even if you have to beg, ask. Even if you have to exchange things, do it. If you want to create creativity in yourself, then get creative. Don't fall prey to my situation. I can't do this, don't sacrifice your time at the altar. My mother used to say. When you defend your boundaries, you get closer to them but you can't afford that. Find this perfect, find a way, make it possible.‎

‎The skill of being wise and wise is that you should know what to avoid. William James‎

‎When you become determined to achieve your only thing every day, inevitably extraordinary results occur. In the meantime, these extraordinary results create the income or opportunity through which you can handle chaos and disorder. Therefore, do not allow this situation to reduce the efficiency of your practice. Get out of fear and fear of chaos, learn how to overcome it, and be confident that your only thing will get you.‎

‎3 Unsurcused Habits‎

‎I was once told: If you don't take care of your body, how will we survive? It was a real question. I had been suffering from a serious disease for a long time, but Sometimes I would move my legs, sometimes to change my legs, which were a conscious result of this disease. My ability to work, to concentrate, was more or less impaired and the process of controlling it was very difficult. My therapist told me many ways and asked me for my opinion. And then the answer was to change my habits regarding my health. And then I learned a very great lesson for extraordinary results for myself. ‎

‎Lack and lack of personal energy takes away practical efficiency.‎

 

‎When we can't protect our energy and put our future at stake, the expected result is that our body begins to run out of energy. You always observe this situation. When people don't realize the power of their single thing, they try to do too much. And since they can never work for too long, they do very badly to their bodies. They sacrifice their health and seek success. They work overtime, don't even eat, or eat unhealthy foods, and completely ignore exercise. Personal energy becomes something that is intended to be considered later, due to which the loss of health and domestic life seems to be a natural process. Compelled by the desire to achieve their goals, they think it is better for them to deceive themselves, but this gamble is of no use to them. Not only does this attitude of yours tarnish your best work, but it is also dangerous for me that health and family will just be waiting for you to come and enjoy at some time in the future.‎

‎There is a lot of energy required to achieve high achievements and extraordinary results, and the important thing in this regard is how to achieve and maintain it. So, what can you do? Think of yourself as an amazing biological machine, which you are, and consider this yumeh energy project for very high performance. To start it, adopt the habit of gyan dhan early in the morning and pray for spiritual energy, at the beginning of your day, connect your higher purpose with your thoughts and activities for the performance of all your days. Then head to the kitchen for the most important food and energy treasures of your day; a nutritious breakfast that is energizing for your day-to-day chores. You can't spend the whole day on an empty stomach and then you can't spend the whole day on an empty stomach. Take a simple way to eat the right and nutritious diet and then plan your daily diet for a week.‎

‎Move towards your place dedicated to exercise with full enthusiasm so that all kinds of stress and tension can be removed and your body is filled with strength. Exercise creates maximum strength, energy and ability to work in your body, which is very important for maximum practical performance. If you have limited time to exercise, then wear a step-by-step measure. And then by the end of the day, if you do not walk ten thousand steps, make it your only exercise to walk ten thousand steps every day before going to bed. This one habit will change your life.‎

‎Now, if you haven't spent time with your loved ones for breakfast or during your workout, look for them. Apply them lovingly to the chest, communicate with them and don't speak. In this way, you will be reminded why you are doing your work and you will also be encouraged and you will also be motivated to perform as much as possible so that you can reach home early. People with practical performance progress on the basis of emotional energy; it fills their hearts with happiness and life with light.‎

‎And then put your calendar in front of you and plan your day. Make sure you know your most important tasks and make sure they are done on a priority basis. Then consider what are the tasks you want, and set aside the expected amount of time for them and make your plan accordingly. Knowing what you have to do, and the process of allocating time for it, is a way through which you are able to inject the most amazing mental energy into your life. By planning your day according to this method, your mind is freed from the thought of what tasks will be left unfinished by your willpower. It's only when you take the time for extraordinary results to give them a chance to come out.‎

‎When you're ready to do your job, start working on your only thing. If you're like me and you also have some preferences in the morning, first perform them and then work to comply with most of them in the next hour. Don't wander around and don't be lazy. Finish the work on your desk and then focus on your most important tasks. In the afternoon, take a break, eat, and turn your attention to everything you can do before the end of the day.‎

‎Engines also need rest before working again and you are no exception to this rule. You need your sleep so that your mind and body can relax and be energetic for the extraordinary results of the next day. If you see someone sleeping very little and you know that he is busy working all day, then either he is a wonder of nature or he is hiding his faults from you. In no way are these kinds of people ideal characters. Protect your sleep by determining when you sleep each night and don't allow yourself to stray from this routine. If you adhere to your waking time, then many nights can afford to stay awake longer. If you want you to do too much work, stop at this time, go to the beginning of this book and then start. You have apparently lost an opportunity for something. Once you've successfully associated your proper sleep, you have a good reason to wake up and go to bed at the right time.‎

‎Daily energy plan for highly efficient people‎

‎1. Meditate and pray for spiritual energy.‎

‎2. Use nutritious food, exercise and get enough sleep for physical energy.‎

‎3. Love your loved ones with their chests, kiss them, and don't speak to them with emotional energy.‎

‎4. Set your goals and plan for mental energy.‎

‎5. Better divide time for your single thing for your productive energy.‎

‎The practicality of this project is this: When you have energized yourself in the early hours of your day, then do your work with some more effort in your remaining day. It's not that you don't focus on a lot of work throughout your day, but that you create energy in yourself so that you can start every day to the fullest. If you spend a very practical day till noon, then the remainder of the day passes very comfortably. It is a positive energy that produces positive thrust movement. The process of better planning your every day's early hours is a simple way to achieve extraordinary results.‎

‎4. Environment, doesn't support your goals‎

‎Once in the beginning of my professional life, a married mother, with her two teenage children, sat in front of me. Her family had told her that they would support her new professional life until something changed at home. Food, travel by car and chhetering anything that belongs to his world will go to him. She agreed, she agreed because she later found out how bad a deal she had made. As I heard, I suddenly felt like I was hearing about a cause that deprives you of practical performance that everyone usually ignores.‎

‎In short, your environment must support your goals. ‎

‎Your environment is what you see and the kind of things you go through every day. You are familiar with the people in your environment, different places are also what you see. You trust these elements of your environment and understand them naturally. But they are alert. Any person or anything can distract your attention from your most important tasks at any time and your practical performance can be stolen right under your nose.‎

‎For the purpose of achieving exceptional results, your environment and the people around you should support you at all costs.‎

‎No one in the world can work alone or in isolation. Every day, every day you encounter other people and you're inspired by them. Of course, these people have an impact on your behavior and health and ultimately affect your performance.‎

‎Maybe the people around you are more important than you think. It is a fact that when you work with other people, you adopt some of their attitudes and behaviors, socialize with them, or simply associate with them. From their co-workers to their families, if they don't have a generally positive attitude or don't support you in your job, they'll likely experience a negative attitude. The attitude is like contagion, it spreads easily. When you become strong according to your thinking, no one will be strong enough to set their negative attitude on you forever. Therefore, the process of gathering the right and competent people around you is the right thing to do. While different people's behavior robs you of your energy, effort, and determination, your support will make as much progress as possible to encourage you. And finally, when you sit with people with a successful mind, then, according to the researchers, there will be a positive stream of success, where they will encourage you and send you on the journey you want.‎

‎Who distracts you is a process that has a significant impact on your health. Harvard Professor Dr. Nicholas and his colleagues have written a book about how the social environment, of course, affects your well-being and well-being. In this book called Connected: The Surprising Power of Our Social Networks and How They Shape, he also writes that our lives connect the gaps between relationships, drug use, insomnia, smoking, drinking, food, and even happiness.‎

‎For example, their 2007 review of obesity showed that if a close friend of yours becomes obese, then you will also have a 57 percent chance of becoming obese. Why? The people we meet also try to behave like us.‎

‎Over time, you become like people who are close to you, but not only do their attitudes and habits affect you, but their achievements also affect you. If the people you spend time with are highly successful people, their successes also affect you. According to another study, 500 school-age participants who have best friends are children who build relationships with high-achieving students, and this experience is reflected in their excellent performance in their exams. In addition, children whose friends are high performing are useful to them because of their encouraging and motivational beliefs and ideas, as well as their academic performance. Meeting with people who are looking for success will further strengthen your motivation and morale and positively increase your performance. ‎

‎Your mother was right in saying that you should have good company. The wrong people in your environment can definitely distract you from this path of action when you walked it. But the reverse is also true. No single banana can succeed, and so no one alone can be unsuccessful. Focus on the people in your environment. Continue to search for people who will support your goals and show you the path to success that no one else can show. The people in your life will influence you more than you think. Respect them properly and make sure you can get their help to get your way to your destination.‎

‎Gather only people around you who will help you move forward in life. "Oprah Winfrey‎

‎If people are your top priority when it comes to creating a conducive, conducive and supportive environment, then the importance of space or location is no longer there. When your physical environment is not compatible with your goals, then your physical environment can become the first obstacle to success.‎

‎I know it sounds very simple, but in order to succeed in accomplishing the only thing, you have to accomplish it, and your physical environment plays an important role in whether you can do this single thing of your own or not. A wrong environment can never lead you to success. If your environment is full of many misconceptions and differences, then you can move towards a destination you have never desired. Keep thinking about it often when you are eating sweets and you want you to lose weight. It is possible that someone can deal with this problem easily, but most of us go away eating sweets in the same way.‎

‎The things and people involved in your environment will either lead you to a better distribution of time or distract you. It starts when you wake up and finally sit in the front of the best distribution of time. What you hear from your time, the alarm rings in you that the division of time actually starts when it determines whether you will reach your destination, and when you reach your destination, you will be practical. So run this trial run. Follow the path you will take every day and remove from yourself all kinds of sighs and sounds that come in front of you. For me, something as simple as email at your home, and then the morning newspaper, morning news, TV programs, neighbours walking outside the house with your dogs, get them all out of your way. These are all wonderful things, but they are wonderful when I'm passionate about accomplishing my only thing. So I don't see my email immediately, I don't read newspapers, I keep the TV off and I choose my path carefully. I ignore the coffee shops and information boards along the way, which I can see later. So what I've learned is that when you clear and smooth the path to your success, then your journey towards success begins continuously.‎

‎Don't allow your environment to overwhelm you. Your physical environment is important and then the people around you are also important to you. When you encounter an environment that is not conducive and pleasant to you, and that does not match your goals, it is very common and unfortunately a very common reason for the lack of practical performance. As an actor and a comedian, Lily Tolman once said: "The road to success is always under construction. So don't let yourself stray from making progress towards your only thing. Pave and clear your path and get help from the right people and place for this purpose.‎

‎Key Concepts‎

‎1. Start saying no: Always remember that when you say yes to something, you say no to everything outstanding and that's the basis for maintaining any commitment. Start rejecting others' requests directly or by saying this, not now, so that nothing can mislead you. The act of learning not to say no will set you free and that's the only way you devote time to your only thing.‎

‎2. Acknowledge chaos, disorder, and chaos: Realizing that the quest for your only thing puts other things behind, while wasteful actions can distract you from the path. This kind of disorder, chaos and chaos is inevitable, so create space for them, learn to deal with them. The success you have achieved for yourself by accomplishing your only thing will continue to prove that you have made the right decision.‎

‎3. Make better use of your energy: Don't put your health at stake by working too much. Your body is an amazing machine but there is no guarantee that it will always work, its repair and maintenance costs can be very high. Thus, it is very important to use your energy better so that you can achieve your goal and live your life according to your desire.‎

‎4. Take responsibility for your environment Make sure that the people around you, and your physical environment, support your goals. The right people and the right physical environment in your life on your daily path will help you achieve your only thing. When these two elements are aligned with your single thing, they will provide you with the positive, constructive, and physical life that you feel you need when striving to accomplish your single thing.‎

‎Screenwriter Leverwiston collected everything for us when he said: I can't understand that the purpose of life is to achieve happiness. I believe that the purpose of life should be that life should be meaningful, life should be responsible, life should be always there. And more than that, life is something that should be given importance, something that should be counted, something for which a person is determined, that he can make a difference in his life. Make your life meaningful, consider priority important in your life and create practical performance in your life. Adopt these three elements for the same reason that you have adopted all three of your commitments and got rid of the four reasons responsible for depriving you of practical performance... Because you want to leave your mark, you want your life to matter to you.‎