Live with purpose

 ‎ Life is not the name of finding yourself, but life is the name of creating yourself. George Bernard Shaw‎

‎How do you use your goal to create an extraordinary life? Ebenezer Scrooge showed us how all this happens.‎

‎A stone-hearted, stingy and greedy man, who hated Christmas and all the things that brought joy to the people, his last name, was synonymous with misery and misery... Ebenezer Scrooge. He might have been the last person to teach us how to live. In Charles Dickens's 1843 masterpiece A Christmas Carol, he tells us this.‎

‎Scrooge's story of transforming from a bad-tempered, stingy, stubborn and hateful person to a bummer, happy-hearted and loving person is a perfect example of how our destinies are determined by our decisions and our lives are shaped by our decisions. Once again, this story provides us with a formula by which we build an extraordinary life for ourselves with extraordinary results. I apologize to you for taking some time out of your busy schedule so that I can quickly tell his immortal story so that you can know everything.‎

‎Once on Christmas Eve, the spirit of the deceased Jacob Marley came to Scrooge's house, who was his former business partner. We don't know if it's a dream or a reality. Marley cried and said, "I came to you tonight to warn you that you still have a chance and that you can avoid what happened to me." You have three tears... The spirits of the past, the present and the future will frighten. Remember what was agreed between us?"‎

‎Let's pause for a moment and remember who Scrooge was. Dickens describes him as a man whose original impressions have been frozen by the coldness within him. Clenched fists, head lowered and san stone in hand, Scrooge gives very little on his side and keeps more and more. He is low-key and lonely. No one likes to say 'hello' to him on the road. No one cares about him because he doesn't care about anyone either. He's a bitter-tempered, bastard, harnessed, old poppy... Whose sight, the touch and the heart, all suffer from coldness, whose heart is never soft. His life is lonely and life is the worst punishment for him.‎

‎In the evening, the three souls came to him to see the present, the past, and the future. During these meetings, he observes how he adapted to his present form, how his current life is going, and what will eventually happen to him and the people around him. It's a very scary experience that very clearly makes him shake when he wakes up the next morning. Unaware of whether this is a reality or a dream, his head begins to spin when he finds out that time was static, and now Scrooge realizes that there is still time for him to change his fate. In a state of joy, he runs out to the street and tells the first boy to bring the biggest rooster from the market and send it to the house of his only employee, Bob Cratchit, in an unknown way. Seeing a gentleman, he once refused to ask for any help and charity for the needy, but now he prays for forgiveness and forgiveness and allocates huge sums of money to help the poor.‎

‎Scrooge eventually went to his nephew's house where he apologized that he was too late to help them and accepted their invitation to eat. His nephew's wife and guests, with his love and sincerity, wondered if this was the same scrooge.‎

‎In the morning, Bob Kuchat, who arrived too late for his work, encountered Scrooge. What does it mean to come to your office at this time of day? I won't tolerate this kind of behavior anymore! Before such unpleasant words came to his ears, Bob heard him say, "Now I'm increasing your salary!"‎

‎Scrooge became the benefactor of Bob's family. He found a physician for his disabled son You and became his second father. At the moment, Scrooge is spending the rest of his life helping others in every way possible.‎

‎Although it is a simple story. Charles Dickens provides us with a simple formula by which we can live an extraordinary life; a meaningful life, consisting of all-round and practical results.‎

‎Every time I reflect on this story, I become convinced that for Dickens, purpose is the name of sharing our desired destination and our important thing. This means that our priority is what we consider most important to ourselves and our practical results come when we do activities in this regard on our behalf. He considers our lives to be a series of integrated alternatives, where our purpose determines our priority, and this pattern determines the practical outcomes that our activities produce.‎

‎According to Dickens, our goals determine our personality. ‎

‎Scrooge's story is simple and very easy to understand, so we re-study A Christmas Carol through Dickens' formula. At this stage we enter his life when the sole purpose of Scrooge's life is wealth. He is looking for a life that he may or may not seek. He cares more for wealth than his people and believes that wealth is his purpose in life. With this goal in mind, his priority is clear: to make as much wealth as possible for himself. Accumulating wealth is important to him. As a result, the goal of its practical operations is only to acquire wealth. When he is done with some of his work, he counts this wealth just for the sake of entertainment. Earning, planning, borrowing wealth, acquiring wealth, counting it, these kinds of activities are part of his day because he is a greedy, selfish man, completely unconcerned with the young people who are around him.‎

‎By Scrooge's own standards, his top priority is the fulfillment of his purpose, but for another person it is a ruined life.‎

‎This could have been the end of this story, but it would not have been the way his former partner Jacob Marley had imagined and who did not want Scrooge to reach the disaster he had faced. So, what happened to Scrooge after that? According to Dickens, his purpose changed, which also changed his main priority, which also changed the course of his practical activities. After Marley's intervention, Scrooge realized the transformative force of a new goal.‎

‎So, how did he acquire this personality? Let's see how it happened. ‎

‎By the time this statement was over, Scrooge had become a sympathizer of the people, not a follower of wealth. Now he takes care of people. He takes care of his financial condition and his physical condition. He sees himself happy with relationships with other people and tries to keep people happy throughout his life. He prefers people's money more than wealth accumulation, and now he believes that wealth is good as long as good things can be taken from it.‎

‎What is his priority now? There was a time when he saved wealth and used people, now he uses wealth and saves people. His top priority was to make as much wealth as possible, but at this time his top priority is to help people as much as possible. As far as his activities are concerned, he spends all his money to help people.‎

‎This change is very spectacular and the message from it is also very clear. Who we are and what we want to be called, our actions determine what we do and what we achieve. A purposeful life is also the happiest and happiest.‎

‎Purpose-based happiness‎

‎When many people are asked what they want in life and you will hear the answer from many people that they need happiness. Although many of us have many different answers, we still want happiness. Regardless of our goals, whatever we do in our lives is simply to achieve happiness, but then we get it wrong. We don't get happiness the way we think. I want to tell you an ancient story to explain my position.‎

‎Kashkul‎

‎One morning, on being seated on his throne and facing a beggar, a king asked, "What do you want? The beggar laughed and said, "You are asking as if you can fulfill my wish." The king said angrily, "Why not, you will get what you ask for." The beggar warned him and said, "Think twice before making a promise!‎

‎Now, this beggar was not an ordinary beggar but his master in the first birth of the king who promised him in his first birth, I will come to try you in our next life, you have lost the opportunity for this birth but I will come to your aid once again. “‎

‎The king, who did not recognize his old friend, insisted, "Whoever. You will ask, you will get it, for I am a mighty king who can fulfill any wish. The beggar said, "This is a very simple wish, can you fill this cup of mine?" And the king said , and commanded his minister , that the man 's treasury should be filled with wealth . The minister obeyed the king's orders, but the amount of wealth that was poured into kashkul would disappear. As he went on pouring more wealth, wealth would disappear.‎

‎The beggar's stomach was still empty. ‎

‎The word spread throughout the empire, and a large crowd gathered there. At that time the king's reputation and power were at stake, so he said to his minister, 'If my kingdom goes, go, but I will not accept defeat at the hands of this beggar.' He emptied his wealth in Kashkol, diamonds, jewels and emeralds began to empty his treasure.‎

‎Finally, while the crowd stood silent, the king fell at the beggar's feet and accepted his defeat. You've won, but before you leave, tell me what's the secret to this mess?‎

‎The beggar replied politely, there is no secret. It's just a human desire. "One of our biggest problems is that we want to make our life our sure goal and it does not become a beggar's misery because the desire without a pan is constantly looking for the next desire that will make us happy. This is a defeated theory.‎

‎The pursuit of wealth and means, everything is for our expected happiness. On the one hand, it works in practice. Acquiring wealth or anything else we desire can raise our level of happiness for a moment, then it goes back. Over time immemorial, our greatest minds have been in search of happiness, and then the conclusions drawn from them have been the same that the pursuit of wealth and means does not, by itself, lead to lasting happiness.‎

‎How circumstances affect us depends on how we interpret them because they relate to our lives. If we miss out on a bigger scenario, we can easily set out in search of a social success. Why? When we fulfill one of our desires, our happiness decreases sooner or later because we soon become accustomed to our success. This situation happens to everyone and eventually makes us bored, we try to find something new. What's worse is that we don't care about the process of enjoying what we've achieved, nor do we slow down the process because we automatically set out in search of something else. If we are not careful, we are constantly looking for it to enjoy it to the fullest. It's a great way to be beggars and one day we feel that our lives changed forever that day. So how can we find lasting and sustained happiness?‎

‎Happiness is on the path to success. Dr. Martin Slugman, former president of the American Psychological Association, says that five elements shape our happiness; positive emotions and happiness, success, relationships, meetings, and meaning. Among them, meetings and meanings are very important to them. The process of making your lives more meaningful, through more and more meetings with people, is the surest way to find lasting and lasting happiness. When our day-to-day activities serve a larger purpose, there can be very powerful and lasting happiness and happiness.‎

‎Take wealth, for example. Since wealth means the ability to acquire something and gain something more, it sets a very great example. Many people not only did not understand how to make money, but also did not understand how to be happy. I have told everyone from famous businessmen to high school students how to make money and whenever I ask them, how much money do you want to earn?" And when I ask them , how have you earned so much wealth ? Then I get the same answer, I don't know. Then I would ask, "Can you tell me the definition of a financially wealthy person? In response to this question, I would get many kinds of answers that many started with millions of dollars. When I asked him how he came to the idea, he would often say, 'That's it.' I would reply, it's like that and it's not. It depends on what you do with that wealth. “‎

‎I think financially rich people are those who have earned a lot of money without using it for the purpose of their life. Now, please realize that this definition is a challenge before everyone to accept it. To be financially prosperous and wealthy, you must have a purpose in your life. In other words, without any purpose, you will never feel when you will have so much wealth and you can never be financially prosperous and wealthy.‎

‎But it's not that getting more wealth doesn't give you happiness. Maximizing wealth to a certain extent can give you happiness and happiness. But not after that. Because getting as much wealth as possible to inspire and energize you will depend on what more you need. It has been said that success should not be dependent on sources, but be careful that while achieving happiness, the kind of success you will be looking for, you will be able to create happiness only through the means through which you get it. Maximizing wealth just for the sake of acquiring wealth cannot provide you with the happiness you want from it. Happiness comes when you set a bigger and more important goal in your life than just gaining wealth, and that is why happiness is achieved when we fulfill the purpose of our life.‎

‎The power of purpose‎

‎Purpose is the ultimate source of man's power and personal power... It is the power of faith and the power to sustain that belief. The ingredients or prescriptions for abnormal outcomes consist of an understanding of what your priority is and what types of activities you engage in to achieve that preferred goal. When you have set a definite goal in your life, your mind becomes clear and transparent, due to which you become more and more confident and confident about the fulfillment of your goal, due to which you usually progress more and more quickly towards your destination. When you make quick decisions, then you are usually counted among the people who make their first decisions and adopt the best practices. And when you have the best options available, then you have the opportunity to do the best experiments. In this way, you know where you stand right now, and this knowledge helps you to get the best possible results and experiences that life has for you.‎

‎Purpose is useful to you even when the circumstances don't exist according to your will. Sometimes life becomes very difficult and there is no way to get rid of these difficulties. So when you keep your goal high, live a full life, then you can deal with the difficulties of your life. That's okay. We all face this situation. When we know why we are engaged in such and such work, we are able to give us the motivation and motivation that we need when the circumstances are not favorable to us. Strict implementation of any decision to achieve success is a fundamental requirement for achieving extraordinary results.‎

‎The goal gives you the last bond that allows you to walk consistently on the raw you set. When you take activity according to your goal, your life becomes harmonious, and the path of life that you set through your feet is in line with the path set by your heart and mind. Stick strictly to your goal and don't be surprised when you start humming with joy and then even whistle happily while working.‎

‎When do you ask yourself? What is the only thing I can do in my life that is of utmost importance to me and to the world, which makes everything very easy or unnecessary for me? So at this time you bring purpose into your life using the power of a single thing.‎

‎Key Concepts‎

‎We all want to be happy, but the way to find it is not the best way. A sure-lasting way to achieve happiness is when you aim for something big in your life, when you bring purpose and meaning to your daily activities.‎

‎2. Find your big and important path: Find the purpose of your life by asking yourself the question of what your motivation is, what you find motivating for yourself. What is it that wakes you up in the morning and keeps you on the path when you get tired and you develop vision? Sometimes, I call it your big thing. That's why you find happiness in your life. This is why you engage in activities that you should perform.‎

‎3. In the absence of an answer, choose a direction: Of course, the purpose seems to be very logical, but it should not be so. Think of it as simple as the only thing you want more than anything else in your life. Whatever you want to achieve, try to write it down in writing and then write that you will get it somehow.‎

‎For me, it should be like this: "My goal is that people can live their greatest lives through my teaching, guidance, and writing." So, what does my life look like?‎

‎Teaching is my only thing and it has been the only thing for me for the last 30 years. At first, it also involved the process of giving market lessons to our customers on how to make great decisions. Then I started teaching the salesperson in the classroom, while I also used to meet them face-to-face. Then I started teaching people the tricks of business. Then I started to inform those who wanted higher success about the very work people and strategies, and then I started addressing seminaries in the last ten years of my life, to make people aware of the principles needed to build a life. I also provide guidance on what I teach, and I endorse it with my writing.‎

‎Choose a decision, follow that path and see how you like it. Time makes your path clear and if you think that you don't like it, you can always change it because life is your own.‎