Balanced life

 ‎ Truth is wealth. It's an unattainable confused dream... The quest for a balance between work and life, as we think, is not just a defeated assumption, but a harmful catastrophe. Keith H. Hammonds‎

‎In life, there is never a certain life, never. Regardless of how conceivable it may seem, Azan's state is a very different thing. So the process of getting ajn is a very different thing. If we consider a noun, it is practically used as a verb. One thing that we eventually achieve, in fact, is something that we do consistently. A balanced life is just a farce... There is a misleading concept which is generally considered an important and achievable goal but it is also not considered in reality. I want you to think about it, I want you to challenge it, I want you to reject it.‎

‎A balanced life is just a lie. ‎

‎Equilibrium theory is just a theory. In philosophy, the Golden Path is a middle path located between the polar extremes and a concept used to describe the location between two places that is more desirable than any situation. It's a great idea but not practical in nature. This view is ideal but not real because there is no balance in life.‎

‎Just as it is very difficult to imagine, it is more or less very difficult to believe simply because a person usually seems to suffer from the same feeling that I need more balance, which is a common and common view that does not exist in ordinary lives. We hear so much about balance that we understand that it's exactly what we're looking for. But not at all. Purpose, source, importance.. It is from these elements that a successful life is formed. Once you've discovered these elements, then more and more certainly you'll start living an unbalanced life, crossing an unseen middle line to put your priorities into practice. The process of giving your full time to your priority and most important tasks is a reflection of a full life and you know what your balanced activities and functions are in your view. Extraordinary results require focused attention and time. The timing of focusing on one thing refers to focusing on another task at another time, and this situation makes balance, impossible.‎

‎The beginning of the fall‎

‎Historically, the process of balancing one's lives has also had a new and unique privilege and special status in terms of consideration. It has been active in life for thousands of years. If you do something. If you are not engaged in hunting games, cultivating crops or breeding livestock, you will not be able to get much life, but things have changed. Jared Diamond's book Guns, Germs, and Steel: The Fates of Human Societies, which won the Pulitzer Prize, tells us how farm-related activities that produced many foods eventually led to professional-specific skills. Twelve thousand years ago, everyone in its land used to get their food by hunting, but now almost every one of us is either a farmer or gets food from the crops grown by the farmers. "The journey from fodder to the farm told people how to become scholars and craftsmen. Some used to work so that there was food on our tables, while some people worked to provide tables for us.‎

‎At first, most people worked according to their needs and desires. The blacksmith did not necessarily stay at the furnace until five o'clock in the evening; he could go when the hoofs of his horse were ready. Then, the industrialization of the 19th century saw for the first time many labourers working for a single person. The story started with difficult and hard-working officers, day and night work and bright factories, who had no concept of day and night, and the result of this situation was that in the 20th century many widespread movements started to protect the rights of workers and limit their hours.‎

‎But the term work-life balance could only be coined until the mid-1980s, when half of married women joined the workforce. In 2005, Ralph Together, Being E.Gomory, wrote in the preface Working Apart: Dual-Career Families and the Worl-Life Balance, it was reported that in a family, there was one person to earn a living and do household chores, but later the number of people earning a living in this family increased to two while there was no one left for household work. Every sensible person knows who was initially attracted to overwork. In the 1990s, work-life balance quickly became a principle for men as well. A survey by 1996 leading newspapers and journals around the world showed that there was a dramatic increase in the number of articles on the subject when only 1986 articles were written in the decade 32-2007, but in the year 1674 alone, the number of articles increased to <>.‎

‎It's probably no coincidence that an increase in technical skills reinforced the view that something is lacking in our lives. The place and a few Muhammad will do it. The balance between work or work and life in our lives, which has been etched in our minds as a real problem, has clearly captured our minds and ideas.‎

‎In recent years, there has been a huge increase in the mention of daily life balance in newspapers and magazines.‎

‎Middle Management‎

‎The desire for balance makes sense. When there is plenty of time for everything, everything is done on time. It seems impressive that when we just think about it, it seems pleasant and peaceful to us. This peace is so definite that we know that it is a way of life, but it is not so.‎

‎If you think of moderation as irrational, then our unbalanced situation occurs when we move beyond moderation. When you go too far from moderation, it means that you are crying in extremes. One problem with living a moderate life is that we are not able to make extraordinary plans for our time to accomplish anything. In trying to do all the work at the same time, not every task can reach completion and nothing is achieved from it. Sometimes the work is completed and sometimes it is not. Knowledge of when to moderate and when to go to extremes is a sign of real understanding from you. Moderation and proper and consistent use of time have extraordinary consequences.‎

‎Living a balanced life means never touching an extreme. ‎

‎The reason why we should not strive for balance is that a fair situation never happens, but magic always appears in the extreme situation. What is less worrying about this is that the struggle to find the extremes is really a real problem. We naturally have the understanding that success always exists at the outer end, but we do not realize how to achieve success at those external ends.‎

‎The quest for extremes brings with it problems.‎

‎When our working hours increase, the result is that many problems arise in our lives. When we fall prey to the principle that long hours are useful to us, we unjustifiably blame our work and say, I have no life. Of course, it's usually the exact opposite. Even if our professional life does not interfere, our personal life can also suffer from so many problems that we once again come to the defeated conclusion that I have no life. And sometimes we both fall victim to extremes. Some of us have personal and professional problems when everything we face problems and when we are once again on the verge of defeat, we say again, I have no life.‎

‎Just as we work in a moderate manner, working in extremes refers to a moderate management that is always driven in our lives.‎

‎Time doesn't wait for anyone. ‎

‎Once my wife told me the story of one of her friends. Her mother was a school teacher and her father a farmer. He saved all his life so that he could live a prosperous life after retirement and travel the world. The woman remembered the shopping with her mother with great joy and enthusiasm when she went to the local clothing store from where she would buy some clothes and samples. The mother explained that when she retires, these will be her travel clothes.‎

‎She never reached her retirement age. In her final year of teaching, she was diagnosed with cancer and died. Dad never thought of spending the money he had saved because it was his money and he was no longer there to spend it together. When my father also died, and my wife's friend wanted to clean her parents' house, she found a box full of clothes and patterns. The father had never cleaned it, he could not even clean it, it was the source of many memories. This box was like all the promises to him that weighed heavily on his life.‎

‎Time doesn't wait for anyone. Push something to the extreme or the end because the postponement can prove to be permanent Once upon a time a very successful businessman was my friend who almost all his‎

‎Life worked day and night, very sincere in his stance that he was doing all this for his family. And when he has done all this, they will all eat the fruits of his hard work, spend time together, travel together and do all the things they could not do in their lives. After spending years building and developing his company, he recently sold his company and now started thinking and talking about what he should do now. I asked him how life was going and he proudly said that life is going very well. "When I was expanding my business, I would rarely go home and rarely meet my family. So, now I'm with them on vacation and making up for the time I couldn't spend with them. You know how it all happened. Now it is that I have wealth and time and now I am bringing back those past years. “‎

‎Do you really think that you can bring back a child's childhood story or memories of his birthday? Can you bring back a five-year-old birthday party where he or she has imaginary friends or dinner with the kid's friends in high school? Can you bring back his elder brother's presence on the occasion of a football match while playing on behalf of the little kid? Can you make a deal with God to withhold time for you, to secure an important event that you were ready to attend?‎

‎When you play with your time, then you're putting a bet on time that you can't fulfill. If you are also confident that you can win, be careful that you can survive with your defeat.‎

‎With time, sports spectacle will keep you nowhere. Realizing that this lie will harm you by convincing you that you should do things that you should not do and stop doing the things you should do. Middle management can be one of the most destructive tasks you perform. You can't deny the waste of time.‎

‎So if finding balance is a lie, then what will be your attitude? Imbalance. Instead of balancing, use the counter, and then whatever work you do under this situation will be based on rationality. The things that we think are in balance, rarely really semen on the imbalance. The ballet dance dancer is the perfect example of this. When this dancer dances, she can show herself as weightless as if flying in the air, which is a perfect manifestation of balance and dignity. A closer look will show that his feet move at a rapid pace and provide delicate coordination for balance. The best display of imbalance will show the balance.‎

‎Counter balance short and long ‎

‎When we say that we are in a state of confusion, we usually point to a feeling that certain preferences ... Things that are very important to us... Are unrelated or unattractive. The problem is that when you focus on something that really matters to you, something is forever undeserving. Regardless of how hard you work, some tasks inevitably remain that are not completed even at the end of day, week, month, year and life. The act of doing these things at the same time is nothing but hamat. When your most important tasks are completed, then you continue to feel that there is still some work to be done... And this feeling is of imbalance. In order to achieve extraordinary results, it is important to realize that some work has not yet reached the end, but it is also that you cannot leave everything incomplete and this is the stage from which the state of imbalance begins. The theory of imbalance means that you do not go so far that there is no way back from where there is no way back and when you come back, no work is seen by your nation.‎

‎It is very important that your life can be balanced. When a review of 7100,67 British government employees was conducted, it was found that long hours can prove to be very dangerous. Researchers said that those who worked <> hours a day had a <> percent higher rate of heart disease. Imbalance relation‎

‎Abnormal results at work require long intervals in counterbalance ‎

‎There are two types of counterbalancing: the balance between work and personal life and the balance within work and personal life itself. In the world of professional success, it is not seen how much time you spend on success. The most important thing for success is the concentration of attention compared to contemporary time. In order to achieve extraordinary results, you must inevitably decide which tasks deserve top priority for you and then focus all your attention on accomplishing those tasks. For this purpose, you should maintain an imbalance with regard to the problems faced in all other work. As far as your personal life is concerned, awareness and awareness are indispensable elements. Awareness of your soul, passion and body, awareness of your family and friends, awareness of your personal needs none of these things can be sacrificed, if you really want life, therefore, you cannot sacrifice work for these elements or these elements for work. You can move back and forth between the two at a rapid pace and often you are able to combine activities associated with both of them, but you can't ignore either of them for a long time. Your personal life requires a lot of imbalance.‎

‎Whether or not you imbalance is not really a question, but a question: "Do you work for short or long periods and periods of time?" Work for short periods of time in your personal life and avoid long periods when you are in an imbalance. When you work for a short period of time, then you get in touch with all the things that matter to you and then make progress to accomplish these tasks. Work for long periods of time in your professional life and feel satisfied with the idea that you should be in a state of imbalance for a long time in order to achieve extraordinary results. By working for a long period of time, you develop the ability to concentrate so that you can decide on the most preferred tasks for yourself. There is nothing left behind in your personal life because it is required at the time of main work.‎

‎In his novel Suzanne's Diary for Nicholas, James Peterson doesn't very skillfully explain where our priorities lie in the activity responsible for balancing our personal and professional lives: 'Imagine that life is a game in which you play by bouncing five balls. These balls are called work, family, health, friends and honesty. And you keep them all in the air all the time . But one day you finally come to the conclusion that the work is a rubber ball that if it falls to the ground, it comes back. The other four balls... Family, health, friends and honesty are made of glass. If even one of them falls to the ground, it will inevitably break. “‎

‎Life is a balanced process. ‎

‎The question of balance is really a question of priorities. As you shift your language from balance to priority, you can see your goals in a much clearer and transparent way and open the door to a change in your destination. In order to achieve extraordinary results, you need to set your priority and act accordingly. When you work according to your preferences, you will automatically get the counterbalance and place one thing above another according to your preference. At this stage, it's difficult not because you're in a state of counterbalance, but because you should actually take this position. It is also difficult to see how long you stick to your priority. By setting your priorities in terms of tasks, you should keep a clear mind about your most important work so that you can do it. So go home and make your mind clear about your priorities so that you can get back to work.‎

‎When you should work, get busy with work and when you give the impression of being busy with sports, pay attention to sports. You're walking on a taut rope but if you don't set your priorities, your nakmat inscription is the wall.‎

‎Key Concepts‎

‎Think of two buckets in a state of balance: Put your personal and professional lives in two separate buckets, but your goal should not be to separate them from each other, but to get a counterbalance between them. Everyone has their own goals and ideas on the counterbalance.‎

‎2. Create counterbalance in your work bucket: Consider your work to be a knowledge you should have perfect mastery. This process will give you a variety of time for your single important task and will provide a state of counter-elegance to the rest of your day, week, month, and year. Your professional life is divided into two specific areas. No matter what's most important to you, you should do your most important tasks and let the rest of the work remain incomplete because that's what a professional requires.‎

‎3. Bring the bucket of your personal life to the state of counterins: Recognize that in practice your life consists of many areas and every field requires such a minimum of attention that you can feel your life. Ignore any of these areas, you will feel the difference yourself and for this purpose, constant awareness is needed. You should not take too long periods or long distances while adopting a counter-equilibrium approach because these are all active areas of your life and this is what your personal life requires.‎

‎Start living a counter-balanced life. Adopt priority tasks when they should be adopted and do the rest when possible for you. an extraordinary life, ‎

‎A counter depends on balanced activity.‎