Be careful when interpreting the world, that's how it is. " Erich Heller
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For a long time I have suffered the loss of living by the lie of success. When I started my professional life, I considered everything to be equally important and kept thinking about it and I also struggled a lot for it. Out of frustration, I finally began to doubt myself whether I had the ability or desire to achieve complete success. As my life became constantly imbalanced, I began to think that trying to live a big successful life might be a bad thing. When you try to adapt to something that is not possible, you may be in decline.
I had failed. In order to achieve my destination, I started fighting more. You could have said that I started my effort. I really did that. My idea was that this situation is like living a full life. While your jaw is sent, your fist is clenched, your stomach is cramped and your target has dissolved. As I bend down, my breath has stopped and my body has become restless and is completely tense and stressed. All I understood was that this concentration was a sense of focus and intensity, when I had failed to live with lies. In order to achieve my destination, I started fighting more. You could have said that I started my effort. I really did that. My idea was that this situation is like living a full life. While your jaw is sent, your fist is clenched, your stomach is cramped and your target has dissolved. As I bend down, my breath has stopped and my body has become restless and is completely tense and stressed. I just understood that this concentration was a sense of focus and intensity, when I tried to live with lies. This thought worked practically, but it also took me to the hospital.
I also started thinking that you too would have talked about success like this, walked like success and even dressed like success. It wasn't me, but I was willing to take any method to achieve success, so I started seriously considering the suggestion that you should take the path you want. This method was also successful, but for some time. And then I got tired of the game of success.
I would wake up even before dawn and hum encouragingly and get out before anyone else. In fact, this thought overtook me so much that I would leave for my office when the city was still enjoying the dream rabbit. I would arrive at my desk early so that I could beat everyone in terms of work. I started to accept the view that it would have been possible to see how my desires and ambitions look when I make a good fight. I would meet with my staff at 7:31 a.m., while I would close the door at exactly <>:<> a.m. and not let anyone in who was late. I would get very emotional, but I would believe that this is the only way to achieve success, and that's the only way to see others succeed. This method of mine also failed but eventually it pushed me too far away from success like others.
Now I really started thinking that the secret to success is to do my work as fast as possible every morning, surrender myself to the flames, then open the door and work all day until I really burn down.
And what did all this bring to me? Achievement? And it made me sick and upset. Eventually, I was disgusted with this success.
So what do I do? I buried these lies and went in the opposite direction. I met highly successful people and got rid of all the traditional tactics that are usually used to achieve success.
At first I freed myself from all kinds of restrictions, I really started listening to my body, I slowed down, I breathed a sigh of relief. And then I started wearing t-shirts and jeans while working and ignored any comments for me from anyone. I gave up the current tone and attitude and adopted my true personality. I used to have breakfast with my family. I was now spiritually and physically fit. Eventually, I slowed down the pace of work, doing very little, I deliberately and purposefully reduced the work. I became more engrossed than ever and even slowed down my breath. I have abandoned the accepted keys of success. Guess what happened after that? I began to be more successful than ever and started making my life feel easier than ever.
And then I came to this conclusion. We think too much, we plan too much and we also analyze our professional life excessively, we also review our businesses and lives excessively, long hours are not useful nor healthy. And then we succeed even when we avoid all the things we often do. It was revealed to me that we cannot use time at will and that the basis of success is not what we do throughout the day, but the basis of success is only a few things that we do in the best way.
I learned that the secret to success is to allocate yourself according to the moments of your life. If you can honestly say: This is where I should have been then, and doing exactly what I should have done, then all the wonderful possibilities of your life are possible.
I also learned that the most important thing is that the single thing, the single strategy, is surprisingly the simple truth that is the basis of extraordinary success.
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